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Tuesday, 3 March 2015

DRESS TO IMPRESS ON THE FIRST DATE: 5 GUARANTEED-TO-WORK TIPS FOR MEN

GUARANTEED-TO-WORK TIPS FOR MEN


You’ve asked her out on a date and she has agreed!Congratulations! Certainly, the tough part is over. But if you really arebesotted with her, surely you’d want her to be equally interested in you.
It’s obvious she likes you; why else would she agreeto go out on a date with you? But your focus now should be on keeping her intrigued.
How do you do that? Simple- by making a great first impression! It goes without saying that first and foremost, you need to be well-dressed to sweep her off her feet.
If you have no idea about dressing for a first date, you’ve come to right place. Hint: A pair of shorts and a slogan t-shirt won’t take you places. So read on.


SHIRK THE SUIT

Unless you’re going to see the opera or dining at an upscale restaurant! You don’t want to look like you came straight from work without making an effort to get ready exclusively for the date.
Remember, suits are strictly for work and formal venues. Wear a suit any place else and you’ll come across as uptight. You certainly don’t want this on your first date!


WEAR PANTS THAT FIT WELL

Whether you wear tailored pants or a pair of jeans, make sure they fit well. Buying a pair of pants that fit well may take up a lot of your time, but it’ll be worth the effort.
Don’t have them hanging off in a way that shows your underwear. And if the pockets pull or pucker, you should know you need to buy a bigger-sized pair of pants. Stay away from bell bottoms, acid washed jeans, and boot cut jeans. Remember, you’re not out to revive trends!
And be sure to store your pants the right way. You don’t want to pull out a pair only to find them crumpled and creased. Always hang your pants in hangers so that they are ready to wear at all times. If you have limited closet space, invest in multi pant hangers like the ones from OnlyHangers.


PUT ON A CLEAN SHIRT

Formal or casual, no matter what you choose, always be sure to put on clean clothes. If you can’t manage to change into a complete fresh set of clothes, the least you can do is put on a clean shirt. Women notice, so don’t think you’ll be able to get away with a little stain here or there.
What type of shirt? Half or full-sleeved shirts are both fine depending on your personal preference. If wearing a button-down shirt, make sure there aren’t any buttons loose or missing.
T-shirts are fine as long as you don’t wear ones with slogans or quotes. You don’t need a tee to convey your thoughts to your date; make good use of your mouth! Also avoid t-shirts with an overload of graphics.

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DRESS FOR THE WEATHER

Stop dead in your tracks if you’re reaching for your shorts! Just because temperatures are soaring, doesn’t mean you’re allowed to wear a pair of shorts on your first date. Except of course, if you’re going hiking! If it’s too hot for jeans, a pair of khaki pants will be great.
For spring, you’d want to keep yourself a little warm. Take a lightweight jacket along if it’s going to be cold. You can also put on a blazer. Go for one in a solid color to play it safe. If you’re willing to experiment, try on something patterned or differently textured.
Scarves are in and give you another opportunity to experiment with colors and textures. Pick one that goes best with the rest of your clothes. Don’t layer too much; if you feel hot in them, you’ll have to walk around with your hands full instead of hand in hand with your date.
Autumn and winter will be cooler, so you may want to wear a knit sweater under your jacket. Learn to layer well, you don’t want to end up looking like a fuzzy ball.

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DON A PAIR OF DECENT SHOES

And make sure they match your outfit, especially your belt! No matter how comfortable your everyday shoesare, don’t wear them if they are scruffy or tearing apart in places.
Leather lace-up shoes or loafers will always be a safe bet, irrespective of whether you’re wearing formal or casual clothes. For a casual or semi-casual look, you can wear sneakers. Mandals, sandals with socks, crocs, and flip-flops are an absolute no-no.
Remember, women judge men by their shoes. Do make sure that yours are clean and polished. Women are also known to be wary of men with over-polished shoes; so don’t overdo it.
And if you think you may be removing your shoes while she’s around, do wear a good pair of socks. Hint: A good pair of socks does not equal to novelty socks!
Additionally, if you know you have stinky feet and shoes, get rid of the problem; it isn’t impossible to do so.


CONCLUSION

Armed with these tips, you’re sure to look great. Don’t forget to get a haircut, and trim or shave your facial hair. And yes, taking a bath is an absolute must! A dash of cologne or perfume, and you’ll be ready to go!
Don’t worry yourself sick about anything. If it makes you feel better, know that your date herself might be anxious about your first date together.
Be confident about yourself, pay genuine compliments, don’t get into politics and religion, avoid talking too much about exes, and you’re sure to have a great time with each other!

Sebastian Ward: It’s The Shirt


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There are a lot of shirt brands out there these days. And for the most part, that’s a good thing. Depending on your needs and budget, you can get bespoke, made-to-measure, or off the rack. Dress shirts now come in all manner of pattern, color, style, and fit. Indeed, you can pretty much customize and tweak just about every feature to make it just right for just you.
Not all shirts are made equal, however, and there are times when we just want a great shirt that doesn’t require too much thought.
Features like excellent construction, a good fit, and a design that blends classic shirting qualities with a fresh outlooks are hallmarks of a great “go-to” shirt. It’s the shirt that you want to wear, fits right, and somehow makes you feel especially put together. Often, the best ones are from a brand that does just shirts, is obsessed with shirts, and understands how a great shirt is the foundation of a great wardrobe.
We found that shirt, and its made by Sebastian Ward. Need some context? Think Gianni Agnelli meets Jay Gatsby.
Sebastian Ward makes a thoroughly modern shirt based on design philosophies of the 1920s sprinkled with some Victorian panache. Elements like high arm holes and a fuller cut body with back darting allow the shirt to naturally conform to your body. The longer hem and arms, ending in snug barrel cuffs, guarantee that your shirt stays tucked in place, even when moving around and stretching. While not particularly avante garde, you simply do not see this kind of detail, design, and quality in any other OTR shirt.
If Sebastian Ward shirts have a stand-out feature that makes them easily, and quickly, recognizable, it would be the collar. With a broad cut-away design that sits proud on your neckline, the collar’s elegant proportions are surely distinctive. Long points ensure that with or without a tie, everything stays stylishly in place below a jacket’s lapel while at the same time allowing for a beautiful collar roll. The unique, off-set two button collar – while visually interesting – also adjusts slightly the placket seam, shifting it off the center of your neck, allowing a tie to sit more comfortably.
And the fabric, sourced from Thomas Mason, is just amazing; silky smooth yet substantial. Thick Australian mother of pearl button and single needle tailoring round out the many features which put this shirt at the top of the stack.
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The Oxford Shoes Guide

The Oxford Shoe GuideIn the recent past, we have been working our way through creating a series about various types of men’sboots and shoes, both formal and casual. In our Brogues Shoe Guide for Men, we touched lightly upon the difference between Oxford and Derby shoes, and today we’d like to focus our full attention on theOxford, which is often referred to as the most elegant type of men’s shoe.
Crockett & Jones Wholecut Oxford Weymouth in Dark Brown Antique Calf
Crockett & Jones Wholecut Oxford Weymouth in Dark Brown Antique Calf

What Makes an Oxford an Oxford?

Unlike most other shoes and items of menswear, the Oxford shoe has one principal defining characteristic:  the lacing system. Sometimes people use the term Oxford to denote any smart lace up shoe, even those with open lacing, but that’s not how we will use the term in this guide.
First of all, it may seem obvious but an Oxford is a shoe with laces, and not a slip on, monk strap shoe orChelsea boot. Second, an Oxford shoe has a closed lace system vs. the open lace system of a Derby shoe. But what exactly does that mean? Let’s start with the basics. The uppers of an Oxford usually consist of the quarters and the vamp.

Vamp

The vamp is that part of the shoe uppers the covers the toes and instep, i.e. the front of the shoe.
Oxford vs. Derby - Shoe Anatomy Explained
Oxford vs. Derby – Shoe Anatomy Explained
The eyelets for the shoe laces are generally located on the quarters (with the exception of a wholecut and seamless shoe). For a closed lace system, the vamp is sewn on top of the quarters and the shoelace eyelets facings are stitched underneath the vamp. The shoelaces are used to tie the two quarters together thus fastening the shoe onto your foot. When a shoe is new, the quarters should form a narrow V-shape and once they are worn in, the V should disappear so the quarters touch each other, and you can only see the tongue at the top end. Most British Oxford shoes today, mostly have 5 eyelet holes on each side, whereas American Oxfords often have 6. In the past 4 or even 3 eyelets per side were not uncommon, and so it boils down to personal taste.

History of the Oxford shoe

During the 17th century men’s footwear was dominated by boots. Often high and tightly fitting with buttons instead of laces, they were worn both outdoors and indoors. More often than not these boots featured rather high heels, a style popularised by King Louis XIV of France, who was of modest height. At that time, France was the cultural epicenter in Europe and hence most gentlemen aligned their sartorial choices with the French Court, and footwear was no exception.
However this style of footwear was very comfortable and although it is not entirely clear who exactly invented the Oxford shoe,  it seems plausible that the students Oxford University popularized a “half boot” called the Oxonian Shoe around 1825.  At first, the Oxonian shoe featured narrow slits on its sides which made it much more comfortable to wear around campus than the high boots then in fashion. Slowly over time the side slits were replaced with laces (on the sides). These side laces eventually made their way to the instep of the boot. Further changes included lowering of the heel and the height of the boot being lowered to expose the ankle. It is still a matter of debate whether all these changes took place on campus, which seems highly improbable.
Some claim the Oxford shoe emerged from Scotland and Ireland. Captoe Oxfords are often called Balmorals after Balmoral Castle to this day. However, what is clear is that they were a result of a quest for a more comfortable shoe and that they were first associated with university students rather than with the older generation of the time.  The timeline for these changes is not very clear, with different sources giving different timelines.
However, we do know for certain that in 1846 Joseph Sparkes Hall, the inventor of the Chelsea boot, stated in “The New Monthly Magazine that Dress pumps are the only shoes now worn. The Oxonian shoe…is the best for walking. It laces up the front with three or four holes. It is none other than high lows now called Oxford shoes.” So, at least by then the name Oxford had caught on in public.
From there it was a short step to being acceptable as the proper choice of men’s footwear replacing boots which were now relegated to being worn for specialized activities such as horse riding. Ironically, the Oxford is a shoe with origins on campus but today, it would probably be considered too formal as an an everyday shoe for on campus wear even by English students, but that’s the evolution of style.
Tan Cap Toe Oxford without Heel Cap and 6 eyelets with burnished cap toe - No 549 by Shoepassion
Tan Cap Toe Oxford without Heel Cap and 6 eyelets with burnished cap toe – No 549 by Shoepassion

Characteristics of the Oxford Shoe

In a nutshell, these are the characteristics of a present day Oxford Shoe
  1. Closed lacing system.
  2. Low heeled
  3. Exposed ankle.
All Oxford shoes share these basic features and although most have the eyelets on the quarter, a wholecut or seamless Oxford are the exceptions…

Types of Oxfords

Oxfords are not always Brogues, though they sometimes are and Brogues are not always Oxfords though some of them can be. It is the lacing system and the absence or presence of broguing that is the differentiating feature.”   To Americans the shoes described in the article are more familiar as Balmorals or ‘Bal- type’ while to the English they are known as Oxfords. To the English the Balmoral is an entirely different shoe (a particular type of oxford with no seams, apart from the toe cap seam, descending to the welt ). In this guide, we use Oxford the traditional, English way.
Although technically, the construction of the shoes has no impact on the classification as an Oxford shoes, Goodyear welted or Blake stitched shoes are recommended because generally they feature the most classic Oxford styles.

Plain Oxford

The plain Oxford basically consists of the quarter and the vamp. It features neither a leather cap over the toe box nor does it have  broguing. This style is simple yet elegant; black is  the number one choice for evening shoes, and patent leather for black tie and white tie. Of course, some men also wear pumps, but most men wear laced shoes. Some men prefer a water polish calf leather version that is polished to a mirror shine. Patent leather is definitely more traditional but a mirror shine is fine too. Although in theory this shoe can be made in brown, you will likely only ever see them in black.

Cap Toe Oxford

The cap toe Oxford, sometimes also referred to as captoe or cap-toe,  is probably the most widespread Oxford shoe style in existence. The most popular color is undoubtedly black, and this the black cap toe Oxford is the most popular shoe for the majority of classic men’s shoe manufacturers. Of course, it is also available in tan, brown, cognac, oxblood etc. but the black variety is the epitome of Oxford shoes.
In addition to the vamp and quarters, an extra piece of leather – the so called toe cap – is added across the toe box,  and they also feature a heel cap. In black, the cap toe Oxford is the classic business shoe worn by elegant men with their (business) suits across the globe. If you can’t afford a separate pair of patent leather or polished calf leather plain Oxfords,  the black calf leather cap toes may serve double duty as a tuxedo shoe because it is considered by some to be the poor man’s evening shoe , although technically it is not formal  enough for traditional black tie. That being said, it is never correct to wear it with white tie.
Half Brogue Oxford in dark Brown Suede - Model Roberto by Scarosso
Half Brogue Oxford in dark Brown Suede – Model Roberto by Scarosso

Wingtip Oxford / Brogue

The Wingtip Oxford has a pointed toe cap with extensions called wingtips which extend along both sides of the shoe.  Although technically an Oxford, it is generally referred to as a Brogue. When seen from above the cap is shaped like a ‘W’ or an ‘M’ depending on the viewpoint. This style is considered a bit more casual than the Cap Toe. Learn all about Brogues here.
Brown & Tan Saddle shoe No 589 by Shoepassion
Brown & Tan Saddle shoe No 589 by Shoepassion
Modern Saddle Shoe interpretation Moder Stefano in black & red box calf by jfitzpatrick
Modern Saddle Shoe interpretation Moder Stefano in black & red box calf by jfitzpatrick

Saddle Oxford

These oxfords lack any kind of toe caps and have an additional strip of leather that runs across the top of the middle of the shoes down to the sole (the width of the shoelace eyelets) in a contrasting color. They may or may not have heel caps in a contrasting color. Historically, it is an American style, but you can find them offered by companies all over the world.
Kiltie Oxford
Kiltie Oxford – phot by www.classicshoesformen.com

Kiltie Oxford

The Kiltie Oxford is distinguished with an additional fringed tongue hanging over the top. These shoes are no longer very common.
Gaziano & Girling Patent leather evening Oxford Wholecut
Gaziano & Girling Patent leather evening Oxford Wholecut

Wholecut

This type has an upper that is cut from one single piece of leather. Usually shoes are made from multiple pieces of leather sewn together. The wholecut oxford has the distinctive closed lacing system and this along with the single piece construction gives it an extremely clean and sleek look. It also requires more leather to make a wholecut because it generally has only one seam at the heel. In recent year, this style has become rather popular and often features a medallion on the toe box or other broguing. It is available in all kinds of colors and is usually a bit more expensive than a cap toe or plain oxford because it requires more skill and more leather. An all black wholecut in patent leather or mirror polished calf works as an evening shoe as long as it has no broguing.

Seamless

The seamless is very similar to the wholecut in the sense that it is made from one piece of leather as well. While the wholecut has a seam on the heel, the seamless does not have a seam making it even more difficult to produce. Also it requires even more leather than a whole cut and it takes on average about twice as much leather as is needed for regular cap toe Oxford. As such, it is usually only offered by bespoke shoemakers. Sometimes, the term wholecut is used synonymously with seamless simply because the term is more well known, although technically this is incorrect.

Style Guide

Strictly speaking the Oxford is considered to be a formal shoe, however this does not hold true anymore as they come in many colors, variations and more casual leathers such as suede and brogues.
jfitzpatrick Tacoma Wholecut Oxford Variation in grey with charcoal suede inserts
jfitzpatrick Tacoma Wholecut Oxford Variation in grey with charcoal suede inserts

The Plain & Cap Toe Oxfords

These days the Cap Toe Oxford is often acceptable at less traditional Black Tie events and with dark evening suits. However, traditionally these are the quintessential dress shoes for your day – to – day suits and business wear. They can also be worn when you want to add a dash of sophistication to your casual dress options like chinos and a blazer. It is not recommended to wear black with denim. Cognac, mid-brown, cherry or oxblood wood work serve this purpose much better. For tweed, it is generally recommend to wear boots or derby shoes instead, while fresco, solaro, linen or seersucker can be worn with cap toe Oxfords, although it is recommended not to wear black with these outfits. Instead, a spectator or a solid shade of brown are a much better choice.
The first Oxford every man should own is a black cap toe Oxford. It may seem unexciting but at the end of the day, it is the shoe that can be worn to the office, funerals, weddings, evening events and maybe even black tie and as such, it is very versatile. Unlike brown, black does not come in different shades, and so you don’t need two pairs of black shoes of the exact same style. Many well dressed men may have only a couple pairs of black shoes in their shoe closet, one of them always being the black captoe Oxford, while they have 10, 50 or 100 pairs of brown shoes. For general advice on how to combine brown shoe colors, including cap toe Oxfords with your wardrobe, please refer to the How to Wear Brown Shoes Guide.
Cheam Last
Cheam Last

The Wingtip Oxford / Brogue

Wingtips or Brogues are considered to be more casual than the Cap Toe. In black, it can be worn to the office but in dark brown it becomes more versatile because you may now combine them with tweed, and other more casual outfits and looks, including jeans. Especially in shades of brown, these are great for the office in non-white collar environments, sportcoat / blazer ensembles. A dark brown brogue in suede is probably one of the 2nd or third shoes you should buy after you have invested in a black cap toe Oxford.
Wingtip Oxford Shoe with houndstooth bespoke suit
Wingtip Oxford Shoe with houndstooth bespoke suit

The Saddle Oxford/ Kiltee Oxford

These are probably the most casual of the lot but certainly the most difficult to carry off. Either style is only recommended for men who already have at least 15 pairs of shoes and who want to add something unique to their shoe closet. Traditional saddle shoes often come in cream or off white, with a navy blue saddle and red rubber soles, but of course there are many variations available today. They can work really well with jeans, colored chinos or corduroy trousers and other casual to semi casual outfits.
Allen Edmonds Canvas Spectator
Allen Edmonds Canvas Spectator

Wholecut / Seamless Oxfords

Wholecut Oxfords are rather popular right now, and they can look particularly handsome when a patina is acquired or applied to the shoe. In plain black, they are a modern alternative for a Tuxedo, and in brown they can be worn with all kinds of suits, combinations or casual outfits. Basically, they can be worn just like a cap toe Oxford.
Wholecut with side gussets by George Cleverly with punched broguing
Wholecut with side gussets by George Cleverly with punched broguing

Where to Buy Oxford Shoes?

There are literally thousands of brands and manufacturers that offer Oxford shoes, and probably over 100 who offer quality Oxfords that the Gentleman’s Gazette would approve of. Obviously, we have not tested them all, and hence we cannot provide a definitive list. However, we can give you a few tips.

Shoelaces – How to Change the Look of the Shoe Without Buying New Shoes?

If you already own oxford shoes, and you want a new look without buying a new shoe, the easiest way to do that is to exchange your shoe laces. First of all, make sure to get quality shoe laces that don’t snap and oxford laces should always be round, not flat and thin because those look more elegant.
A different color than black or brown, will really create an entirely new look for your oxford, and dark greyor light grey shoe laces on a black oxford can look very sophisticated. Also, a dark purple on brown can look splendid just like a light blue with white Oxfords.

Budget Oxfords

We consider Budget Oxfords to be in the $250 or under range. Brands that we have experience with areScarosso (Blake Stitched), Pediwear (Goodyear Welted), Loake 1880 (Goodyear Welted), Meermin(Goodyear Welted) and Shoepassion (Goodyear Welted).
Scarosso produces affordable shoes including an Online Made to order program that allows you to individually customize a show to your liking. Ultimately, they don’t provide the highest quality but very good value.
Pediwear is a shoe store in England that offer many different English shoe brands including their own brand. Currently they have a sale going on offering a cap toe Oxford for £109.50 or 91.25 without VAT, which equals  about $155.
Loake produces private label shoes for many companies and offers decent quality for the price.
Meermin is run by a family Albaladejo family member who runs the famous Carmina shoes from Mallorca, Spain. In order to save costs, their shoes are made in China, and so the workmanship is not quite en par with Spain, but the price is also considerably lower.
Shoepassion is based in Berlin, Germany and offers a great selection of classic and contemporary Oxfords Made in Spain. With good quality and good prices I recommend them to anybody who is looking for more unusual styles like saddle shoes, spectators or lamb wool lined boots and shoes.
Crockett & Jones - Alex
Crockett & Jones – Alex

Midrange

Mid range is $250 – $700.
Crockett & Jones From England, we recommend Crockett & Jones for the classic Gentleman who wants proper English shoes with history in a great selection and variety of styles.
JFitzpatrick The brand was created by The Shoe Snob blogger Justin Fitzpatrick who resides in England and creates elegant and often fashion forward / contemporary interpretations of classic shoes at affordable prices.
Carmina from Spain produces excellent Oxfords and specialices in Cordovan although these are usually more expensive than $700.
Allen Edmonds produces classic American style shoes and apart from a MTo program they have many specials and deals going on often bringing the price below $250.
Beautiful Gaziano Girling half brogue in brown
Beautiful Gaziano Girling half brogue in brown

High End

Every shoe above $700.
Gaziano Girling From England, Gaziano & Girling offer great shoes either MTO or bespoke. The last are often stylized and the epitome of elegance.
Aubercy from France produces very elegant Oxfords (Richelieu in French) just like Crockett & Jones Paris.
In Italy, you can get great Oxfords from the likes of Stefano Bemer, Mannina or Ugolini, in Austria from Maftei, Scheer or Materna.
Of course, any bespoke maker could be Listed here but there are too many to list them all.

What is your favorite Oxford Shoe? Please share your experiences and preferences in the comment section below!

This guide is the result of a collaboration between Sven Raphael Schneider & Vikram Nanjappa.
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Learn all about Oxford Shoes, including the Definition, the History, Style suggestions, How to Combine it & How to Buy Guide.