GUARANTEED-TO-WORK TIPS FOR MEN
You’ve asked her out on a date and she has agreed!Congratulations! Certainly, the tough part is over. But if you really arebesotted with her, surely you’d want her to be equally interested in you.
It’s obvious she likes you; why else would she agreeto go out on a date with you? But your focus now should be on keeping her intrigued.
How do you do that? Simple- by making a great first impression! It goes without saying that first and foremost, you need to be well-dressed to sweep her off her feet.
If you have no idea about dressing for a first date, you’ve come to right place. Hint: A pair of shorts and a slogan t-shirt won’t take you places. So read on.
SHIRK THE SUIT
Unless you’re going to see the opera or dining at an upscale restaurant! You don’t want to look like you came straight from work without making an effort to get ready exclusively for the date.
Remember, suits are strictly for work and formal venues. Wear a suit any place else and you’ll come across as uptight. You certainly don’t want this on your first date!
WEAR PANTS THAT FIT WELL
Whether you wear tailored pants or a pair of jeans, make sure they fit well. Buying a pair of pants that fit well may take up a lot of your time, but it’ll be worth the effort.
Don’t have them hanging off in a way that shows your underwear. And if the pockets pull or pucker, you should know you need to buy a bigger-sized pair of pants. Stay away from bell bottoms, acid washed jeans, and boot cut jeans. Remember, you’re not out to revive trends!
And be sure to store your pants the right way. You don’t want to pull out a pair only to find them crumpled and creased. Always hang your pants in hangers so that they are ready to wear at all times. If you have limited closet space, invest in multi pant hangers like the ones from OnlyHangers.
PUT ON A CLEAN SHIRT
Formal or casual, no matter what you choose, always be sure to put on clean clothes. If you can’t manage to change into a complete fresh set of clothes, the least you can do is put on a clean shirt. Women notice, so don’t think you’ll be able to get away with a little stain here or there.
What type of shirt? Half or full-sleeved shirts are both fine depending on your personal preference. If wearing a button-down shirt, make sure there aren’t any buttons loose or missing.
T-shirts are fine as long as you don’t wear ones with slogans or quotes. You don’t need a tee to convey your thoughts to your date; make good use of your mouth! Also avoid t-shirts with an overload of graphics.
DRESS FOR THE WEATHER
Stop dead in your tracks if you’re reaching for your shorts! Just because temperatures are soaring, doesn’t mean you’re allowed to wear a pair of shorts on your first date. Except of course, if you’re going hiking! If it’s too hot for jeans, a pair of khaki pants will be great.
For spring, you’d want to keep yourself a little warm. Take a lightweight jacket along if it’s going to be cold. You can also put on a blazer. Go for one in a solid color to play it safe. If you’re willing to experiment, try on something patterned or differently textured.
Scarves are in and give you another opportunity to experiment with colors and textures. Pick one that goes best with the rest of your clothes. Don’t layer too much; if you feel hot in them, you’ll have to walk around with your hands full instead of hand in hand with your date.
Autumn and winter will be cooler, so you may want to wear a knit sweater under your jacket. Learn to layer well, you don’t want to end up looking like a fuzzy ball.
DON A PAIR OF DECENT SHOES
And make sure they match your outfit, especially your belt! No matter how comfortable your everyday shoesare, don’t wear them if they are scruffy or tearing apart in places.
Leather lace-up shoes or loafers will always be a safe bet, irrespective of whether you’re wearing formal or casual clothes. For a casual or semi-casual look, you can wear sneakers. Mandals, sandals with socks, crocs, and flip-flops are an absolute no-no.
Remember, women judge men by their shoes. Do make sure that yours are clean and polished. Women are also known to be wary of men with over-polished shoes; so don’t overdo it.
And if you think you may be removing your shoes while she’s around, do wear a good pair of socks. Hint: A good pair of socks does not equal to novelty socks!
Additionally, if you know you have stinky feet and shoes, get rid of the problem; it isn’t impossible to do so.
CONCLUSION
Armed with these tips, you’re sure to look great. Don’t forget to get a haircut, and trim or shave your facial hair. And yes, taking a bath is an absolute must! A dash of cologne or perfume, and you’ll be ready to go!
Don’t worry yourself sick about anything. If it makes you feel better, know that your date herself might be anxious about your first date together.
Be confident about yourself, pay genuine compliments, don’t get into politics and religion, avoid talking too much about exes, and you’re sure to have a great time with each other!
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